Do you ever feel like you’re manifesting the wrong things? Here’s how to stop manifesting bad things and start living the life you want to live.
Do you feel as if the harder you try to use the law of attraction, the worse things get? You’re not alone. It happens to all of us sometimes.
Here’s how to stop manifesting bad things.
How to Stop Manifesting Bad Things
First, you need to realize that there are several reasons why bad things may manifest in your life. The universe is in constant motion with a constant ebb and flow.
Our previous thoughts and actions create ripples like a stone tossed in the water. Your situation today may be the result of the thoughts and actions of your past.
Sometimes other people’s ripples affect ours like a speedboat zipping past your canoe on a lake.
Sometimes seemingly bad things happen as a direct result of trying to create positive change.
What does that mean? Why would trying to create positive change result in problems?
It’s simple, really. Living with old habits and patterns is like floating with the current. When you begin to make changes, even positive changes, you’re moving away from that current and into rougher water – at least until you find a new current that leads to your new destination.
It’s like the old saying if you continue to do what you’ve always done, you’ll continue to get what you’ve always gotten. When you change that, it causes upheaval.
Navigating Rough Waters
Old issues resurface such as negative thoughts and limiting beliefs. They are there to show you what is holding you back. These are the issues that need to be resolved in order to get what you want.
Your outer circumstances may change, too. You may run into roadblocks or dead-ends.
Sometimes disastrous things may occur that shake you to your core and cause you to reconsider what you truly want your life to be.
You may suddenly find yourself on an entirely different road than you had intended.
Don’t be alarmed. It works that way sometimes.
Sometimes the only way to get to where you need to go requires a major change in direction. More often than not, these changes are painful, unexpected and surprisingly enough, strangely necessary when you look back on them many years later. This doesn’t make them any easier now.
Turning Things Around
So, how do you stop manifesting bad things?
First, accept what is. You don’t have to like it. Just accept whatever is happening now.
Allow it to be. Let go of resisting it or fighting it.
Feel your feelings. Accept your feelings and then let them go.
Let go of the emotional energy invested in the situation.
Be grateful. Look around you for things to be grateful for. This makes it easier to accept what is.
Look for the benefit in every circumstance. It’s there. It may take a while to find it but keep looking.
Look for something you can learn from this or some way that you could change. You may be trying to build something with the wrong tools or without a blueprint. You may need more information about a subject or just need to learn new options.
Focus On What You Can Change
Maybe you need to change your behavior or your perspective.
When you start to change your life you usually end up having to change yourself as well. It’s just part of the process.
Forgive yourself. Forgive others.
Dust yourself off and keep going.
Focus on what you want.
Keep creating and moving towards what you desire.
Soon you’ll stop manifesting bad things and you’ll realize that you’ve changed course.
Until then, it may feel as if you’re swimming against the current.
Just keep going.