Is manifesting love possible? How can you use the Law of Attraction to manifest relationships? While having another person involved complicates things, the basic principles of the Law of Attraction remain the same.
What you focus on, through your beliefs, your decisions and your choices, influence the people and relationships that you attract into your life. By deciding what you want and changing the things that hold you back, you allow yourself to not only make room for love but also invite love into your life.
Decide What You Want
First, decide what you want in a relationship.
What type of relationship are you looking for? Do you want a soul mate, an intense whirlwind romance or a relaxed, comfortable relationship with someone who makes you laugh?
Are you ready to get married or do you just want to start dating again after being out of the dating scene for a while?
How much time (and energy) do you have available for a relationship? Does it match the kind of relationship you want? If it doesn’t, what are you willing to change?
If you have to schedule a date three months in advance but want an intense whirlwind romance, you may need to make room in your schedule.
What Do You Want In A Partner?
Next, decide what you want in a partner. Write it down. Write both what you want and what you don’t want.
Notice how long your lists are. If you have a very long detailed list, you may be making things harder than they need to be.
Try to narrow it down to your top 10 for each list. Choose your 10 must-haves and your 10 deal-breakers. Focus on what is truly important to you. After all, this is your list and your future.
Visualize Your Future
Once you have your list and know what type of relationship or person you want, take a few moments and imagine having a relationship with that person.
What would you get that you don’t have now? Visualize what your life would be like? What would you be like? Would you be happier, more adventurous, smarter or more athletic?
These fantasies are important clues to living the life that you truly desire. We tend to look outside of ourselves and think that something or someone else will bring us happiness or joy.
While they can contribute to your happiness, the true power to change your life lies within you. Think again of your fantasy and the person you imagine yourself to be. Then look at where you are now.
What steps can you take to become your imagined self? Do you want to be more athletic? Start training for a 5k. Do you want to be smarter? Take a class or learn something new. Take action to become the person you want to be. This creates positive energy and forward momentum, not to mention good vibrations.
Learn to love and accept yourself first. It’s only when you love and accept yourself that you’re able to love and accept others. Focus on your strengths. Reach for your dreams. Explore what you’re passionate about.
Live, grow and create. Once you start pursuing your passions with enthusiasm and joy, you begin to attract other people who share the same high vibration.
A word of caution: make sure you’re becoming the person you want to be instead of trying to change yourself into what you think someone else wants you to be. This is a common pitfall in romantic relationships.
If you find yourself having to change your personality or give up things that are important to you to fit into a relationship, chances are the relationship is not a good fit. You’ll only attract more things and situations where you don’t fit.
What are your negative thoughts trying to tell you? Negative thoughts and feelings are just feedback. They alert you to old beliefs, habits and unresolved feelings.
Don’t get stuck in them but take the time to notice them. Write them down. Look for patterns. Are you still gun-shy from an old breakup but wish you had a new relationship? It may be time to let go of the past, forgive yourself and the other person and move on with your life.
Remind yourself that good relationships do exist. When you notice a happy couple, think to yourself I can have that. Be grateful for noticing them and happy for their happiness.
Focus on the love you have now. Appreciate the loving relationships that you currently have with friends and family. Allow yourself to accept and believe that there is someone for you and that someone is looking for you, too.
Using the Law of Attraction for Relationships
For a few moments every day, try a short visualization. Relax and think of the loving relationship that you desire. Invite them into your life. Make the visualization as real as possible.
Connect with your feelings. Imagine how you would feel to have them with you. Think of what it would feel like to have them in your life. Feel the feelings, the joy, the happiness, and the excitement. Just relax and enjoy the visualization for several moments every day.
Then, detach, let go and turn it over to the universe. It’s not giving up. Rather, it’s giving the universe the freedom to manifest more love in your life.
Making Space for Manifesting Love
If you’re serious about manifesting love, create space for love to come to you.
Do you have room in your life for another person? Take a quick look around your house. Is there room for someone else? Is there room in your closet for another’s clothes?
Even if you don’t want to live with someone else, just clearing a little space can help signal to the universe that you have room for something or someone new.
Another Fung Shui tip is to look at your artwork. Try to avoid focusing on pictures of solitary people or tragic scenes.
If you want to use the law of attraction to attract a relationship, surround yourself with positive images that help you feel good.
Take action. Get out and socialize. Give yourself the opportunity to meet new people. Do things that you enjoy with other people that enjoy the same things.
If you tend to stick to solitary pursuits, you may need to step outside of your comfort zone a little and find other people that share your interests.
Manifesting love is not that different from manifesting anything else.
They say that love is blind. Sometimes it is. But it can also help you to see the true beauty, not only in another person but also in yourself.