Why does the Law of Attraction seem to work for some people but not for others? Here are three reasons why the Law of Attraction is not working for you.
The Law of Attraction is based on the idea that you attract the people, things, and circumstances in your life. Then why do some people attract good things into their lives and live the life of their dreams, while others struggle for years or even decades and never seem to come close to their hopes and aspirations?
3 Reasons Why the Law of Attraction Is Not Working
If you’ve tried manifesting and the Law of Attraction is not working for you, it may be due to one of the following reasons.
#1 – Unfamiliar Ground.
What you want may be outside of your frame of reference. It may be something that you’ve never experienced and don’t personally know of anyone else who has experienced it, either.
If you desire a happy, loving relationship but you have never had or seen anyone in a happy, loving relationship your chances of attracting one can become difficult. How would you even recognize it if you saw it?
If you keep attracting the same type of partner and find yourself in unhappy relationships, again and again, this can be part of the problem.
Changing personal relationships takes more than just changing partners. It can also require you to change your own beliefs and the way you respond to others.
It’s not about perfection. It’s about deciding what you want in your life and determining what you need to do to get there.
It may involve seeking out people with happy relationships and watch how they treat each other.
It may include changing the way you treat others or by changing yourself.
What type of person would you need to become to attract the type of person that you desire? This simple shift in thinking puts the power back into your hands to create the future that you want for yourself.
#2 – Lack of Direction
Sometimes you know what you want but you have no idea how to get there.
You feel like you’re wandering in a desert without a map. While you know that your goal is possible, it’s hard to believe that you can get it because you don’t know where to start.
There are three quick and easy ways to tackle this.
First, take a sheet of paper and write your goal at the bottom. Ask yourself what you would need to do to get there. Very quickly, without too much thought or worry, write down each possible step that comes to mind. They don’t have to be in the right order or even good ideas. Just write down everything you think of. After just a few minutes, you’ll have at least a rough game plan of how you could get there.
Second, pick one small step from your list and take action. As you move forward, you’ll attract more ideas and options.
Third, look for someone else who has accomplished what you wish to do. Study how they did it. What steps did they take? Study their actions to create your own roadmap.
#3 – Self-Image
If you’ve ever started to take action, but then noticed yourself thinking I couldn’t do that or I’m just not that type of person, then your self-image is holding you back.
Everyone is born with a wide range of talents, strengths, and weaknesses, but we are far more abilities than we give ourselves credit for.
If you would like to have more friends but notice yourself thinking that I’m too shy and I’m not good in social situations, you’re placing unnecessary limits on yourself.
Everyone is shy and uncomfortable in some situations, but can also be talkative and comfortable in others. If you want to label yourself, then use a label that helps you to get what you want.
If the Law of Attraction is not working for you, it may be because of one of these three reasons.
By taking the steps to overcome them, you can quickly get back on track and make the Law of Attraction work for you – to attract the life and future you desire.